Sunday, February 28, 2010

Birthday Surprise

I couldn't tweet about our plans this weekend because they involved
surprising Anna's Grammy Amy for her birthday... Had to maintain
complete radio silence!

Friday night we weren't sure if we would be able to go- the roads were
really bad and the forecast at the time called for snow through 11am
the next morning. We were not optimistic but still prepared anyway,
just in case.

The next morning we woke at 7am to check the road conditions... And
the snow had magically disappeared! It had stopped snowing hours
before. The road conditions were good and the clouds that were
previously dumping snow all over us had vanished.

We started out later than we had hoped but still made it for a late
lunch at a restaurant in Noblesville. Amy was genuinely surprised...
It was a great moment when she walked in to see the three of us
standing there waiting for her! Her sisters Kath and Dede had
surprised her the night before and joined us, as did Blaire and her
boyfriend Chris when they arrived a few minutes later.

We had a booster seat for Anna and she stayed in it for a little while
(as long as we kept the crayons coming) but she much prefers a "big
girl chair." She wound up eating her order of steamed veggies in a
regular chair next to Grammy Amy after giving her some very sweet
Happy Birthday hugs.

As we were finishing the meal, Anna's toddler moxy bubbled to the
surface. She was just radiating happy energy, despite not napping at
all! Grandpa Larry chased her as she sprinted and squealed around the
restaurant for a while. She pinked up his cheeks pretty thoroughly
before he gratefully passed the Baby Chaser baton to Aunt Blaire. :-)

On the way to the house we told her about the three doggies she'd see
and she got SO excited. She maintained her Toddler Comet energy level
all the way through to bedtime, keeping us all very entertained.

At bedtime she was overly tired to the point that she was not super-
cooperative. After wrestling a diaper onto her, she did not want to go
to sleep in this strange place. (we've stayed there before, but still,
not routine.) I ended up propping myself up a little in the guest bed
and letting her fall asleep draped over my chest. I waited for her to
be deeply asleep (I even dozed myself) before finally laying her
limply in her pack n play.

The rest of the night did not go so well, despite her obvious
exhaustion. She woke up screaming at 2:15am. Not sure whether it was
just the unfamiliar surroundings or a lingering problem with dairy
digestion, but in any case she was NOT going back in that pack n play
and we couldn't let her cry it out with a house full of people. About
the only thing we could do was drag her into the bed with us. For the
first time ever in her life, she actually fell asleep in our bed.

It lasted only around 3 hours, though- she started stirring and just
flopping all over us. {Okay, shove feet in Daddy's face, now smoosh
Mama's mouth, aaaaaaand SWITCH!} Eventually I gave up and took her out
in the living room around 6am.

We lazed around a little... She made some noise but not a ton. Soon
Amy and puppy Brewster joined us. We had a nice time hanging out while
the others slept. Fed Anna her breakfast cereal (spiked with probiotic
powder) while Brewster looked on hungrily.

Sesame Street is shown by our local PBS station at 8am on Sunday, but
not in Indy... We opted instead to watch the "Elmo Loves You!" DVD, a
present from Grammy & Grampy.

Dad spoiled us with yummy egg sandwiches on freshly-baked biscuits.
Anna had a great early lunch of scrambled eggs, biscuit bites, banana
chunks, and strawberries.

After loading up on so much good food, Anna's engine wound down to a
lower gear. She had a healthy case of The Stares as we packed up the
car and got ready to go. We weren't to far down the road when she took
a nice deep sniff of her blankie and drifted off to sleep. That was
close to 90 minutes ago - a really great car nap for her!

Glad we could help give you a Happy Birthday, Grammy Amy!

Saturday, February 13, 2010

We Signed Up For This

The last 24 hours have not gone to plan. I'm disappointed, I'm frustrated, and I'm tired, but I'm trying my best to keep perspective - overall, we have a good, smart, healthy baby and difficult days like this have not come as frequently for us as they come for others. I'm repeating all that in my head when I feel like screeching in frustration!

All last week she and I had a mild cold but it was never bad enough for either of us to stay home. By the latter half of the week, we were both pretty much better. Or so it seemed - when I picked her up from daycare yesterday, her nose was running like crazy. I don't know whether she picked up a new bug or what, but her nose is definitely unhappy.

Bedtime went surprisingly well and I thought we might luck out with a good night, but then just before 11pm, things went south quickly. I went in to comfort her and she just got progressively more and more irritated, even as I soothed her. It felt like we were rolling downhill, just picking up speed, getting worse and worse. We were stuck in this pattern, I would calm her, she would fall asleep on me, I would try to put her back in her crib, she'd wake up and cry, clinging to me tightly. Eventually I was unable to calm her anymore, she was just crying and yelling constantly even as I rubbed her back, rocked her, and sang to her.

I have to think there was something else going on. Last weekend she had bouts of inconsolable crying at the end of naptime due to painful gas. She does not have a history of inconsolable crying AT ALL and this gas thing is a recent and strange development. We are clueless about what might be causing it as there doesn't seem to be any particular food she's eaten recently each time. We've been in touch with the pediatrician's office - we just have to keep an eye on it and watch what she eats to try to figure it out.

Back to last night - we were at a loss for what to do. Chris came in from time to time but it was fruitless - there was nothing he could do. I tried to bring her into our bed (which we have NEVER done ever due to sids paranoia, even though she's past sids risk now) but it was too strange to her and it just made her madder. I then resigned myself to a night on the couch with her draped across my chest. We spent maybe 30-45 minutes downstairs but didn't stay there... being downstairs ended up helping her settle down. Then she was finally happy but wide awake. From there it was a matter of winding her back down again. We went back upstairs, read some books (oh man I struggled to keep my eyes open) and she finally went back down again, albeit with an Elmo board book that would keep her awake and occupied for another 15 minutes. Then she finally, FINALLY fell back asleep at around 12:45am.

She slept until about 8am and we had a pretty okay morning, although with the rough night and the nose still running, we decided to call off our Valentine's date for this evening. Huge bummer, but hey - we signed up for this sort of thing when we decided to become parents.

Then came naptime. No dice. She was (somehow) full of bubbly energy and never settled down, just kept talking and playing with her books and stuffed animals. She was up there for less than an hour before we called it off. With no nap, she ended up being on the cranky side of things for much of the rest of the day - no surprise.

I went out from about 5:45-7:15pm to run to Target and Kroger. (I left with the Traumatic Screams of Abandonment ringing in my ears and saw her looking balefully out the window at me as I pulled away; stab through heart).

As I was driving home Chris texted me a picture of her 100% passed out in her high chair. When I walked in I again heard her crying angrily in her room... I went upstairs and found Chris rocking her and singing to her. While she slept he had taken her out of her high chair, taken her upstairs and almost finished changing her diaper when she woke up and got mad. He told me she had also didn't eat very much for dinner (she passed out before she had the chance!), which was probably part of the problem.

I took her downstairs and offered her lots of different things, some of her favorite foods, but she wasn't having any of it. Finally I resorted to breakfast for dinner and whipped up some of her usual breakfast cereal - and score. She ate every last bite and even ate a few spoonfuls of peas after it was gone. Turned out to be not such a bad dinner. From there we went upstairs and tried to follow our usual routine as closely as possible. While she still fought sleep for an unusually long amount of time (how??? I don't know!! she has to be exhausted!), she finally fell asleep and has been down for close to two hours now. THANK. GOODNESS.

So that's where we are right now. I'm writing this as I watch the Olympics and Chris and Leila are snuggled up next to me, both snoring. Hoping for a better night, skipping church tomorrow to take care of her (and not spread germs around the church) and hoping that we can celebrate Valentine's Day in some small way tomorrow.

On the bright side, we've already booked the babysitter for next Saturday instead... we will have our night on the town sooner or later, dangit!

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Valentine's Party

Anna's daycare is having its Valentine's Day party this Thursday and I can't decide what she should wear. Ok folks, I realize it's not exactly her prom dress choice or anything; I know it's no big deal... but I still thought it would it be fun to let democracy decide. SO: Please see below and then vote!

Choice 1:


Pink fleecey hoodie with red polka dots, pink & red striped pants.
Pros: Size is good, colors are right on.
Cons: Nary a heart to be seen.

Choice 2:



Red velvety top with hearts in the lower left, black pants with little white hearts.
Pros: Colors are right and plenty of hearts.
Cons: Size 18 months and getting a little snug.


Choice 3:



I Elmo shirt with either jeans or cargo pants.
Pros: Colors yes, hearts yes, and she LOVES her Elmo.
Cons: A little on the casual side.

Choice 4:



Velvety red dress with butterflies and hearts in the lower left, white tights.
Pros: Totally cute and she'd be the best-dressed kid at daycare.
Cons: Doesn't exactly fit our weather situation and I bet the daycare ladies wouldn't appreciate the tights vis a vis diaper changes.

There you have it! Vote by blog comment, email, or twitter.

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Crazy Talk

One thing that nobody warned me about before having kids was the hallucination factor. I have had more middle-of-the-night bizarre hallucinations since Anna was born than during my entire life up to that point. Early on, when we were very sleep-deprived, it was worse, but I still somehow still work up a good n' crazy hallucination once in a while. Last night was one of those nights.

Chris just emailed me the following.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Around 1:30 I rolled over onto my right side, toward you. As I did so, you reached your hands underneath me mumbling something about Anna.

Chris: What?
Brooke: Where's Anna?
Chris: She's in her bed.
Brooke: No, where's Anna?
Chris: Anna is in her crib.
Brooke: I know, no, she's not.
Chris: It's the middle of the night.
Brooke: (unintelligible)
Chris: You're dreaming right now.
Brooke: [confidently] No I'm not. Commercial Anna might be in her crib, but (unintelligible) Anna might not be...might be on the TV.
Chris: What?
Brooke: [getting frustrated] Fine, if you don't want to go check... [starting to get out of the bed]
Chris: Whoa, whoa...
Brooke:
acceptance, albeit with a hint of skepticism]

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Anna playing with blocks

When we got home from daycare, Anna was just... effervescent. She played with her Mega Bloks and talked up a STORM. The battery was dead on our camera so video wasn't an option, but I was able to grab a couple of audio clips with my phone. Enjoy...

Clip #1


(Kind of reminds me of the audio tapes my mom made when we were really young. Love it.)